Hey girl, I've known this guy for a couple of months and when we started talking he didn't have a girlfriend,well about a month into the friendship i went on his myspace and found out he had gotten with somebody. He calls me almost every morning and night, calls me babe, and tells me i love you. I'm not sure if he's just using me or wat. He did break up with her but i was with somebody else and when i broke up with my x he had gotten back with her. He told my mom he's gonna marry me, and all that junk. IDK wat 2 do. Plz help!!!
Sincerely,
Beat listener
Dear Number One,
Alright!! Sounds like you both are not on the same page. I hate to tell you this but it sounds like he don't know what he wants... If he's in a relationship with someone and still talking to you, saying he loves you, talking to yo momma.... He got issues. I'm a straight shooter so forgive my bluntness, but you gotta value yourself more ma.... If you don't who will. My advice is to always be number one, never less than that and set some mental guidelines as to what you expect in a man. If there comes a time he's single and you are too, then you might wanna continue with him, but don't be surprised if he's whispering sweet nothings in your ear and someone elses too.
Always,
Docta-V
