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Dear Docta-V,
There's this girl i really like and we have known each other for a couple of weeks. We get along fine but i get real nervous when i am with her alone and have no idea what to say to her. The only time i am able to speak without gettin nervous is when someone else is there. I want to be able to speak with her alone and tell her how i feel but i can't seem to be able to. Her birthday is comin up and i don't know what to ger her. Please help me. - Beat listner
Dear Backseat Driver,
There's nothing to fear but fear itself... have you heard that before? I want to give you this scenario, imagine this beautiful young lady you're trying to get with, talking to you about a guy she just met that asked her out. And she likes him. That sucks right? Well, that's whats gonna happen if you keep staring down at your shuffling feet. If you have to practice talking to her in the bathroom mirror, do it, or even ask one of your female friends or a sister to practice your future conversations with them. You gotta build your confidence. As far as a gift? Listen to her... one thing people love to do is talk about themselves. And make sure its sentimental, like a stuffed animal or a poem. Just remember not to sit in the passenger seat while another man drives your girl around!
Always,
Docta-V
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